{"id":3084,"date":"2015-01-21T06:00:53","date_gmt":"2015-01-21T08:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/todacriancapodeaprender.org.br\/?p=3084"},"modified":"2017-10-11T20:55:39","modified_gmt":"2017-10-11T23:55:39","slug":"palmada-ensina-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/labedu.org.br\/en\/palmada-ensina-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Palmada ensina?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando um adulto d\u00e1 um tapa numa crian\u00e7a est\u00e1 ensinando que a agress\u00e3o \u00e9 uma forma v\u00e1lida de resolver um problema.<\/p>\n

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Um gesto estabanado pode provocar a queda de um copo barato ou de uma valiosa pe\u00e7a de porcelana. No primeiro caso n\u00e3o h\u00e1 castigo, mas no segundo a crian\u00e7a pode levar uma surra. Ou seja, a puni\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o est\u00e1 ligada ao gesto da crian\u00e7a, mas \u00e0 consequ\u00eancia desse gesto e ao estado de esp\u00edrito dos pais. Portanto, um tapa n\u00e3o ensina nenhuma regra.<\/p>\n

Outra limita\u00e7\u00e3o do m\u00e9todo da palmada \u00e9 que ele se baseia na superioridade f\u00edsica dos pais, que \u00e9 ef\u00eamera: os filhos est\u00e3o crescendo e todos os pais j\u00e1 pararam de crescer. Para manter a mesma vantagem, ser\u00e1 preciso apelar para acess\u00f3rios cada vez mais pesados, da m\u00e3o ao chinelo, deste ao cabo de vassoura e assim sucessivamente.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m acredita que com palmadas \u00e9 poss\u00edvel ensinar os filhos a ser generosos, dignos ou confiantes. E s\u00e3o esses os valores que queremos transmitir.<\/p>\n

Resposta de Lidia Rosenberg Aratangy, no texto <\/b>Os pais comandam. Os filhos agradecem<\/a>.<\/strong><\/i><\/p>\n

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* Lidia Rosenberg Aratangy<\/b> \u00e9 psic\u00f3loga, terapeuta de casais e fam\u00edlias, professora aposentada da Faculdade de Psicologia da PUC de S\u00e3o Paulo, da qual foi diretora de 1981 a 1985. Autora de v\u00e1rios livros sobre o relacionamento familiar, entre eles O Amor Tem Mil Caras<\/i> (Ed. Olho D\u00e1gua), Pais que Educam Filhos que Educam Pais<\/i> (Ed. Rideel), Livro dos Av\u00f3s<\/i> (Ed. Artemeios).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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